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On Being a Mom of Four (How I’m Really Doing)

October 2, 2015 by Aliesha

I’m asked a lot lately how I’m doing.  I feel like that’s a pretty broad question, and it’s hard to know how to answer!  But I’ll try.

How is Theodore? He’s adorable, happy, cuddly, and healthy.  He’s sleeping great and he is SO very loved by his siblings.  He’s a typical baby, in that he needs to eat a lot and he prefers mama to anyone else. DSC_3483_2smHow are the older kids? They love their baby brother.  They don’t seem jealous at all. Jude is learning how to be gentle!DSC_3366_2smHow am I physically? I bounced back quickly after the birth, and I haven’t had any issues with breastfeeding. I am getting good rest at night. I feel like I have most of my energy back, but by the end of the day, I’m worn out. I dare you to find someone who wouldn’t be after taking care of these busy littles all day!DSC_3511copysm

So overall, we’re doing well.  I feel like I can’t complain, especially considering what some of my friends have gone through or are currently going through (colic, nursing troubles, etc.).  This is a time of adjustment, to be sure, but we’re getting a handle on our new normal.DSC_3515copysm

In all honesty, parenting four kids five and under is challenging!  I’m tending to Theodore’s needs (and he has a lot, I mean, he is a baby!), taking care of Jude (since there’s still quite a lot he can’t do for himself), making sure Cordelia doesn’t get lost in the middle (or smear lotion on the couch while I’m not watching), and carrying on lots of intellectually stimulating conversations with Vera (if anyone would like to temporarily take over this job for me, I’m accepting applications).  Even though all four of them are close in age, their needs from me vary widely.  And because our house does not have an open floor plan, I feel quite divided physically as well as emotionally while I try and care for all of them.DSC_3519copysm

Right now meal times are challenging, since Tad is working through lunch every day as well as several dinners during the week. It’s tricky to figure out how to nurse Theodore while making peanut butter sandwiches with one hand and keeping Jude from crying and keeping the girls out of Tad’s home office.  I sometimes don’t eat lunch until the kids are all down for naps!  But there’s another blessing… all four of them take naps at the same time (hallelujah amen).  So thankful for that!

Our “witching hour” is between 5PM (when I start making dinner) and 7PM (when Tad gets off work).  We eat dinner without Tad, but I still have to keep everyone alive until he gets off at 7PM.  Around 6:40PM you may find me locked in the bathroom nursing Theodore while the older three try to knock down the door with the intensity of a battering ram. C’est la vie.  DSC_3525copysm

But to end on a positive note, some of my favorite moments are:
-when the girls want to hold or help take care of Theodore (they think he is the most precious real-life baby doll they’ve ever seen)
-when Jude asks where the baby is every single morning as soon as he wakes up (we call it “roll call” and it never gets old!)
-when Vera helps entertain Jude (building him a train track or reading him a book)
-when Cordelia and Vera help cheerfully with chores around the house (they thinking cleaning toilets is fun…yes!)
-when I get to snuggle Theodore (I would happily do this all day every day)

As I’m writing this post, the tears are welling up, partly because I feel so, so blessed by my wonderful family, and partly because it’s almost the weekend and I need a nap (or a cup of coffee). That’s the reality of my life right now, and I wouldn’t have it any other way! (Well, maybe I would like to have a full-time housekeeper!)

Filed Under: Cordelia, everyday, Jude, Theodore, Vera

Cow Appreciation Day 2015

July 16, 2015 by Aliesha

This week we once again celebrated Cow Appreciation Day at Chick-fil-A!  They graciously give you a meal combo when you dress up like a cow, so our family always has a great time participating!  My kids were so excited about it this year.

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My mom made their shirts this year, which was so much simpler for me than cutting out black spots for everyone, which is what I usually do.  We had cow masks leftover from another event, so those completed the outfits!

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I loved their braided tails!

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We met a bunch of our friends for breakfast (6 moms and 10 kids in all, I believe!).

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The girls were completely enamored with the big cows!  Jude hung back for a second, but he soon became interested too.

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Vera kept giving this cow a hug!

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We let all the kids play on the play place for a while, then (don’t judge), a few of us went to another Chick-fil-A in town for lunch!

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The kids were excited to meet another cow there too!

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The kids are still talking about our fun day!

Did your family participate in Cow Appreciation Day this year?

Filed Under: Cordelia, family, friends, Jude, Vera

Homeschooling Oceans Unit – Weeks 1 & 2

June 19, 2015 by Aliesha

We started a new homeschooling unit study recently, and I thought it would be fun to share just a few of the learning activities we have been doing!  This is a study of the ocean and the creatures and plants that live in it.  We’re going through the alphabet letter by letter and learning about new things each day!

Vera already knows her alphabet, but she is working on writing each letter and learning what sound each one makes.

Each day we are reading books about the ocean and practicing a Bible verse (a new one each week).

On our first day, we learned a song about the five oceans.  The girls used watercolors to color maps of the world.

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The next two days we studied A for Anemone.  Tad taught one of those days because I was getting my 3-hour glucose test done.

While I was out I saw this photo on Instagram of the girls making sea anemones out of purple play dough!anemone-play-dough

The next day we made sea anemones out of tissue paper.

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We learned about the letter A and its sound.

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Jude is always right there with us!  He likes to color while the girls do their activities.  He also has an ocean puzzle that he enjoys putting together.

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I used this new cleaning tool as a visual aid (and as something they could all touch too) for a sea anemone.

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The next couple of days we studied B for Beach.

The kids played with a cool sand play dough and with sea shells.  We discussed different types of beaches and sand as well as how sand is formed.

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We took a field trip to the beach at the end of that week!

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Our second week began with two days studying C is for Crab.

Vera has been working on counting objects and tracing her numbers.  We talked about how crabs have eight legs and two pincers and about the different colors they can be.

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We made crabs!

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So cute, right?

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We also practiced our crab walk!

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Again, Jude loves to be right in the midst of it all!

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We measured how small the smallest crab is (the pea crab) and how big the largest crab is (the spider crab).

We talked about which of these sticker creatures lives in the ocean and which ones live on the beach.

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Our next day was C is for Clownfish!  We had fun playing clownfish and darting out and back in to the anemone (the rest of us would wave our arms while the clownfish darted in and out).  We did some counting activities and watched a fun video about a young clownfish and his mother.

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And here are the finished clownfish (we accidentally did four stripes instead of three… my fault!):

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For our snack we had little clownfish (made out of apricots, raisins, and white chocolate)!

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We also studied C is for Clam.  In addition to learning about clams (their habitats, feeling the shells, learning what they look like, etc.), we also did some coloring pages and a few other fun sheets.

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We’ve been doing many other activities too, including reading ocean books, doing other coloring pages, practicing our cutting and gluing skills, doing matching games, putting together puzzles, and much more.

At the end of it all, I may put together a little homeschooling oceans unit ebook if any of you would be interested in that.  I’ve compiled what we’ve done from a lot of different sources, and it might be nice to be able to access it all in one place!

We view homeschooling as such a lifestyle of learning, rather than about sit-down activities.  There are so many things our kids are learning each day outside of their “school time,” and it’s wonderful to see how smart they are becoming!  We’re planning on doing this oceans unit all through the summer and then taking a bit of a break when baby Apricot comes in the fall (when everyone else is starting back to school!).  During that time we’ll focus lots on reading aloud, educational games (Legos, puzzles, etc.), and practical life skills.

Filed Under: Cordelia, homeschooling, Jude, Vera

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