Since getting pregnant with and having Vera, people have asked us, “So… do you want more?” Our answer was and continues to be a resounding “YES!” Of course, when we respond this way, many people roll their eyes and say, “Well, just wait. You might change your mind!”
So far, having Vera hasn’t changed our mind. If anything, it’s made us more excited about the wonderful little future blessings God has in store for our family! Every cuddle, kiss, snuggle, smile, giggle, and hug is a constant reminder to us that children are indeed a blessing.
It saddens us that our culture (and, sadly, even the church today) has depicted having children as simply a financial burden or an intrusion on one’s personal life. The Word of God says in Psalm 127:3-4, “Behold, children are a heritage from the LORD, the fruit of the womb a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior are the children of one’s youth“(ESV). Throughout the Bible, having children is always seen as a blessing!
For now, we are grateful for Vera and content to continue smothering her with lots of kisses. We had no idea how wonderful it would be to be parents! We earnestly pray that God gives us wisdom as we love and disciple Vera.
And, we will be thrilled whenever God chooses to give us the next member of our family!
YES is our answer too!! While I was pregnant I would get frustrated with all the negative comments about babies/children.
One of the best cards I received in one of our baby gifts started with, “You are in for such a treat!” She went on to talk about how wonderful children are and I felt so encouraged!
Sure there are moments and even entire days that are very tiring and trying (having an 8.5 month old mobile baby is hard) but I wouldn’t trade it for anything and I want more!!
And I love the picture of you and Vera! She’s beautiful!
Sweet Vera 🙂
And yea.. it is sad how society views children…
I heard recently from a friend that Jillian Michaels from the Biggest loser said she didnt want to have children because it would ruin her body… sad huh? I think Jillian is a huge inspiration – but how foolish and selfish is that… shes sure missing out.
I have always been one who wanted a lot of kids. I want at least 5 or 6… maybe more. But I do know that I have to give myself some time to recover – and so Ive always felt more comfortable putting a little space inbetween my kids… Obviously if it happened despite our being careful, id be happy regardless. But I know for me, I got to have some time to get a routine going with the current baby before I attempt on having another one…
I dont think theres wrong in that either… the Lord knows our heart and knows we’d never not want a child – but he has also taught us to be wise and use our minds – and I think sometimes we have to consider certain things too.
But I def want more 🙂 and prob sooner than later this time! hehe
Coming from a large family (10 kids!) I always got the question, (mostly from strangers who saw me with a younger sibling & assumed they were mine, until I explained) ‘I bet you don’t want any, right?’ Uh, no! We actually want 4-6, what ever God wants to give us! We are going to try for our first next year, then about every 2 years.:)
And such a great picture..little Vera is adorable!
I feel much like Drea, except that I don’t think that it would be wise for me, at this point in my life, to have more kids. I always wanted at least 4, and I now have 3. What’s holding me back? Terrible vericose veins. They are absolutely painful during pregnancy, and they get much worse with each pregnancy. It just wouldn’t be very smart for me to risk a vein rupturing in my legs.
The other thing that holds me back, even if I had perfect veins, is the stress. I have a lot of anxiety. Until I learn to hand it over fully to God, and am a stable, happy mom for my kids, it wouldn’t be fair to add more.
I really admire your faith though, and your willingness to raise all the children that come your way. I really don’t think it’s wise for everyone to live this way though, and I see nothing wrong with wanting to have a little space between births, or even limit the number of children based on the ability to provide for them, emotionally, physically, and spiritually.
3 baby later and when ask the same question YES and YES and still YES 🙂 children are a REAL blessings, because of them I grew closer to Him
So refreshing to read your positive attitude toward having children. Vera looks like a little Christmas ornament in that dress. 🙂
Having 2 kids has been amazing for us! We’ve begun talking about having a third! I’ll pray for you and Tad and your desire for more babies! Hope to see all of you soon!
@RachelI love that idea for a baby card! I know your little man keeps you busy, but I can tell you are enjoying every minute!
@LindseyI’m sure you’re really excited to start your family!
@Mrs. StamThat’s right… I think children can be a means of sanctification in our lives!
@JessJess, that’s so exciting! You’re doing such a great job as a mom. 🙂
Once we are married, (in one month!), Christian and I have prayed & felt led to have a large family in God’s timing.
Whenever we speak out about our desire & calling we feel like we receive an overwhelming amount of feedback against having children, especially at the beginning of our marriage.
It is very great to read your blogpost speaking on this topic and your acknowledgement that children are a gift of God.
@C CCourtney…that is so exciting! I will pray God’s blessings on you as you and Christian trust the Lord in this area. <3